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Cosmic Benchmarks in My Annual Review

9/12/2021

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My annual performance review continues, and it’s a grueling, 10-day process. Even more challenging, I won’t know how I did until this time next year.

I’ve never been the most observant member of my faith, but one aspect I take very, very seriously is the Ten Days of Awe, when every Jew is called upon to account for himself as the High Holidays begin on Rosh Hashanah and close at the end of the Yom Kippur fast.

Our goal, of course, is to conclude the Days of Awe with a promise that we’ll still be here next Rosh Hashanah. It’s either incredibly poetic, or impossibly devious, that we won’t know if we’ve made the cut until we’re back in the next performance review, asking for one more shot at getting it right. Who says God doesn’t have a sense of humor?

As I cycle through the Days of Awe each year, I recognize the absolutely unassailable value of an annual performance review; not a review of my activities or my possessions, but of my value as a human being. I'm not being measured by any standard standards; instead, I'm rated on a table of Cosmic Benchmarks.


  • How did I make the world better in the past year and how did I make things worse?

  • Whose life is improved because of my contributions and whose situation has deteriorated due to my neglect?

  • Which of my failings can I correct in the coming year and which of my shortcomings cannot be overcome in my short stay on Earth?

  • Did I waste the gift of life that I was granted at the end of the last Days of Awe, or did I make my mark in a positive enough way to merit another rotation around the sun?

Most of the year, I forgive myself for all sorts of trespasses, but I’m more demanding about my Cosmic Benchmarks, both because the issue is life or death and I am not the One delivering Judgment. Yes, I realize there might not be a God and there might not be a Book of Life and this whole process might not have any relationship to the year ahead. Still, there’s something to be gained from considering all of it to be literally, brutally, eternally True.

Every year…so far…I’ve gained new perspectives, new insights, as a result of my performance review. Even if I’m really talking to myself, I emerge from the Days of Awe with a renewed sense of mission, a revived spirit, and a bit of added momentum. I’m more appreciative of the time I’ve been given and more aware of the time to come. I don’t know what is coming next, but I am more intent on being worthy of each new day, each new breath.

We all tell people there’s more to life than money or possessions or careers, but we tend to focus on those transitory artifacts much more than we emphasize the overarching purpose of Life. I’m grateful for the yearly reminder of what’s important, why I’m here and the work I still must do…assuming my annual review goes as hoped.

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3 Comments
STEVEN THOMAS
9/12/2021 11:06:08 am

Some lives are a drama, other's a Thriller....ours, I think is a comedy...I like the idea of giving our Good God a chuckle now and again.

The world is definitely a better place because of you Michael!

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David Brimm
9/13/2021 02:26:34 pm

Well done. Happy New Year.

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Bob McLennan
9/19/2021 04:48:53 pm

I'm not God, but if I were I would give you high marks. Without preaching, you elevate the consciousness of your readers.

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