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What would it cost to save this guy?

1/17/2023

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How much would it cost to save this guy?

The guy who lives in this tent has been camped out on the sidewalk under the Orleans bridge for well over a year now. He’s almost a mascot to the people who walk by on their way to work, or maybe to the East Bank Club, a fancy gym a few hundred feet west of his humble abode. They slow down, check out his digs, leave a buck, and continue on their way, proud of their charitable souls.

His digs have improved over the months/years, from a couple of blankets to a small enclosure to a truly fancy tent that any out-backer would be proud to own. Maybe someone donated the tent, maybe he bought it with the stray quarters and dollars and occasional five-spots that passersby dropped along the way. In truth, none of that matters.

He is living on the sidewalk.

He has been living on the sidewalk for as long as anyone remembers.

He will continue living on the sidewalk forever.

Well, not really forever, because he will die first.

He could pass on as the result of untreated illness or a sore that gets infected without a stash of Purell on hand. Maybe he’ll die from starvation or spoiled entrees from a dumpster.

He could simply freeze if the city enforces its rule against “placing items that are an obstruction on the public way.” Streets and Sanitation posted a notice that they were going to remove the tent on December 22—Merry Christmas!!—but they haven’t followed through on it. Yet. 

Maybe he’ll be attacked and suffer the same fate as the Walking Man, another fixture of Chicago’s streets who was set on fire last May while sleeping on the same street, just five blocks east of here. Walking Man—turns out his name was Joseph Kromelis—died in December, reportedly due to complications from the attack.
 
It’s too late for Mr. Kromelis, but what about this guy, the one in the fancy tent on Kinzie, the one who depends on the kindness of strangers and also faces scorn and threat? He knows he’s hated by some of his fellow citizens, he knows he's at risk, and his tent now includes a plea for a more lasting solution than spare change.

“I know I’m hated and not wanted here,” the sign says. “Help me leave this area. Frost bitten hands. So much pain. Help me to never be here.”

So, what would it cost to save this guy?

What would it take to get him into an actual apartment, or a room, with running water and heat and, maybe, a toilet? What would it take to get him clean clothes and to prep him for re-entry into a world that’s been just outside his flap, but disconnected, for so very long? What would it take to get him a job that he could still do after months/years of isolation? Could it be done for $10,000? $20,000? Could his life be saved, turned around, for the cost of a semester in a fancy pre-school?

It’s easy for us to talk about people in groups, because it frees us from the need to come up with solutions. It’s much less messy to talk about the homeless, instead of focusing on this homeless guy. It’s so much easier to shame people for saying homeless instead of the much trendier unhoused, than it is to bring one person in from the cold. But none of that actually does any good. And so...

What would it cost to save this guy?

This guy.

This guy who is pleading to be saved.

“Frost bitten hands. So much pain. Help me to never be here.”
 
 


11 Comments
David Brimm
1/17/2023 12:02:26 pm

Michael: Very heartfelt colum. But now you will be expected to help raise the money. A noble pursuit.

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Dad Writes
1/17/2023 12:20:36 pm

I don't have a problem with raising money, but I am having a hard time getting any insights from various homeless support organizations about how to move forward to achieve results.

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GP
1/17/2023 12:13:36 pm

So what's the answer, in your opinion, if there is one?

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Dad Writes
1/17/2023 12:26:46 pm

I sent out notes to three homeless agencies/nonprofits last week to see how their services might be utilized to actually return someone to housing and employment. I received no answer.

Yesterday, I reached out again. I have received no answers, at least so far.

I understand that there are limited resources here and shelters/food are the first priority, but there is a subgroup of homeless people who could achieve a full return to society with a small investment and I think we need to focus on them, as well.

I'm finding it hard to believe that nobody does this, but the responses so far are not encouraging.

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Mary Davison
1/17/2023 01:02:39 pm

I am right with you on this. Is it a huge concern for our country right no? Yes. but what about this one guy. Can we fix one at a time? It's worth a try.

Have you tried calling Hesed House in Aurora?
+1630-897-2156

I don't know of they can help, but it's the first place I would call.

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Dad Writes
1/18/2023 11:15:29 am

Thanks. I am starting in Chicago because that's where I am and I can do more, if I can help at all, locally. Have you worked with Hesed House on helping homeless people? What was your experience? Thanks.

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Mary Davison
1/18/2023 12:36:30 pm

Living in rural Kendall County, this is the nearest place that provides shelter, meals, and various programs to help unhoused individuals and families to find housing, jobs, training, etc.
I was introduced to them through my church, and now support them with monthly donations, in addition to continued work through church.
This is a group of people that most governments do not serve. This speaks to me, and I'm still finding my way as to how to help in more significant ways.

Marcee Williams
1/18/2023 06:12:48 am

Sad situation, but he likely got that orange tent from Andy Robledo a man who puts his money where his mouth is (unlike many of us). His organization Feeding People Through Plants has provided dozens of these heavy duty tents for homeless people in Chicago. It's a great organization to support. Each tent costs approximately $350-400. https://gofund.me/cc50d144

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Dad Writes
1/18/2023 11:17:52 am

Thanks for the insight. I will check into it when I am back in town. Still, making life more livable on the street is not the same as getting someone off the street for good. So far, only one organization has gotten back to me and they just told me to check in with other organizations. To be continued.

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Mary Davison
1/18/2023 12:36:04 pm

Thank you, Marcee. I'll check this out.

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Louise Donahue
1/18/2023 12:32:22 pm

Mike, it might be worth contacting Connections for the Homeless: https://www.connect2home.org/
When I worked in Evanston, they had a program where people in my building supplied lunches to be distributed in the area by Connections. The organization helped in lots of different ways and they might be able to send you to the right place to help him. This is a great idea. —Louise

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